Have you ever wondered what makes a woman tick? You gaze into those beautiful eyes and you ponder: what she is thinking? What does she want? What does she neeeeeeeed?
After years of trying to figure her out, you finally give up. You are resigned to never understand the mysterious other gender. But have you ever considered going directly to the source and asking her? If you ever do muster the courage to ask her, she’ll tell you…Oh, she’ll tell you alright. And I know just what she’ll tell you. Want to know? OK. I’ll put you out of your misery and tell you. She’ll answer your question in this simple way: “It’s complicated.”
That’s it? It’s complicated?
Indeed, a woman is complicated, so complicated in fact that she probably doesn’t even know what she wants. Even if she does know, she either doesn’t know how to express it, or she thinks you won’t get it even if she tells you.
So, it’s hopeless, right?
No, actually it’s not hopeless at all. And I’m about to tell you every woman’s need. Did you notice I said ‘need’, as in singular? It’s actually not complicated. A woman needs connection.
Did you catch that? Men can be so dense at times. I just told you the secret of the female universe, and you missed it? Come on. No wonder why she never told you before–she thought you’d miss it, and she was right. You missed it. So I’ll say it two final times to make sure you get it. A woman needs…. Connection…. A woman needs…connection.
There you go. You now know what a woman needs, even if she doesn’t know how to express her need.
So what are you going to do with this secret treasure trove of knowledge? Because knowing something and doing something are two very different things.
If you’re a wise man, you will make it your life quest to do your part in connecting with that special woman. Become a student of her. Cultivate your connection as long as you two live. Inspire her to grow closer in her spiritual connection with Our Creator. Nourish her need for emotional connection. Love her and cherish her. And as for your mutual physical needs and desires, that falls into place naturally as a result of you meeting her ‘complicated’ need of connection.
Yes, fulfilling a woman’s need for connection is complicated, but it’s worth it. And when you meet her need for connection, she will know it, and you will know it; and the two of you will have one of those rare and elusive long-lasting, mutually-fulfilling relationships we all long for–a relationship that is of greater value than all the diamonds and rubies in this world. So, what are you waiting for? Go connect with your woman!
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